We don’t like to be shown our cards. After all, it doesn’t necessarily lead to the hoped-for point victory to lay all the cards openly on the table. Especially in matters of love, disappointments lurk here. Because who confesses opposite its secret heart lady (or its heart boy) color, runs the risk to run with the emotional soul trip into the void. Or even worse: to be cut out in his love advance with the „good guy card“ (好人卡 hǎorénkǎ) – worst case! After all, she is the ultimate joker, with which one-sided stormy spring feelings are abruptly taken the wind out of their sails.